Building a Strong and Happy Relationship: The Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson Way

Introduction: The Power Couple of HGTV’s Married to Real Estate

Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson, the stars of HGTV’s Married to Real Estate, are not just experts in interior design and real estate; they are also relationship goals personified. With over 14 years of marriage and two daughters together (plus Mike’s older daughter from a previous relationship), they have cracked the code to maintaining a successful relationship while working together 24/7. Their journey began in 2004, and since then, they have built a life filled with love, laughter, and mutual respect. In a recent interview with Us Weekly, they shared their informal rules for a happy home, offering practical advice for couples striving to balance work, family, and love.

Work-Life Balance: Turning Off the Job at Home

One of the key lessons Egypt and Mike have learned is the importance of work-life balance. As they both work together in the demanding world of real estate and design, they emphasize the need to "turn it off" when they walk through their front door. "When you work together, especially for what we do, it’s almost 24/7," Mike, the 46-year-old builder, explains. "We have to remind ourselves to turn it off before we get in the house, so we can focus on having a good meal or dealing with the kids." This rule helps them create a healthy separation between their professional and personal lives, ensuring that their home remains a sanctuary of peace and connection.

Egypt, the 48-year-old interior designer and real estate broker, adds a playful touch to this rule. She jokes about wanting Mike to "leave his tool belt on and come home and fix some things here," highlighting the light-hearted way they approach their roles as partners and professionals. Their ability to find humor and joy in the little things is a cornerstone of their relationship.

Embracing Each Other’s True Selves: The Power of Unconditional Love

Another foundational rule in their relationship is the commitment to embracing each other’s authentic selves. Egypt recalls how she had to shrink herself in previous relationships because she was seen as "too much." But Mike changed that narrative. "This was the first relationship where I felt like my too-muchness is exactly what he loved," she says. "He shows me unconditional love, and that makes me feel comfortable where I can be my absolute best." This mutual acceptance has been a key factor in their long-term success as a couple.

Mike’s unwavering support for Egypt’s big dreams and loud voice has created a safe space for her to thrive. In return, Egypt adores Mike’s practical nature and problem-solving skills, which complement her creative energy. This dynamic balance is a testament to the beauty of embracing each other’s differences rather than trying to change them.

Stealing Moments for Connection: The Importance of Couple Time

In today’s fast-paced world, finding quality time as a couple can be challenging, especially when you’re raising three children and running a business together. Egypt and Mike have learned to make the most of stolen moments. "It’s hard for him to get away, so I’ll bring lunch to him," Egypt shares. "It doesn’t have to be grand; it doesn’t have to be a five-star restaurant [or] some experience where we’re swept off somewhere. We’re really practical people."

Their approach to couple time is refreshingly simple. Whether it’s sharing a quick meal on the job site or sneaking in a few minutes of conversation during a busy day, they prioritize connection over grand gestures. This practicality keeps their relationship grounded and meaningful, even in the midst of chaos.

The Surprising Secret to Their Success: Separate Bedrooms

One of the most surprising revelations from the couple is their decision to have separate bedrooms. Egypt explains, "We have rediscovered the power of having our own personal space. He can go to sleep when he wants, snore as loud as he wants, play whatever he wants on TV. And I can have my candles and my Solfeggio frequencies [to promote body and mind health] playing all night. I can sleep with the fan on without complaint. We love [doing] that and then coming [back] together with a little rat-a-tat-tat."

For them, having separate bedrooms isn’t about distance; it’s about reclaiming personal space and individuality. This arrangement allows them to recharge on their own terms, ensuring that when they come together, they do so with renewed energy and affection.

Laughter and Longevity: The Key to a Lasting Relationship

Egypt and Mike are adamant that laughter is a cornerstone of their relationship’s longevity. "Laughter is great for relationship longevity," Egypt says with a smile. Their ability to find joy in life’s everyday moments, even when things get tough, has been a glue that holds them together. Whether it’s Mike’s snoring, Egypt’s love for candles, or their playful banter, humor plays a significant role in keeping their relationship fresh and vibrant.

As they gear up for the premiere of Married to Real Estate Season 4, Egypt and Mike continue to inspire fans with their love story. Their rules for a happy home—emphasizing communication, mutual support, personal space, and laughter—offer a roadmap for couples looking to strengthen their own relationships. Tune in to their show to see more of their journey and get a glimpse into the lives of this dynamic duo.